The one you think of as a lover, doesn’t he just think of you as a friend? Do you understand the behavior of the person on the opposite side?
Thirteenth Abhishek Chakraborty. Working in an IT company. Loves childhood friend Ishita for a long time. Said his heart to the woman of his choice. But Ishita did not reply yet. Often the two meet. Talked on the phone. But despite this, Abhishek is unable to understand whether Ishita has any feelings for him or not. Sometimes it seems that Ishita is in love with him even if she doesn’t say anything. Sometimes it seems, Ishita thinks of him as nothing but a friend. Abhishek has been suffering from such tension for a few days. Many people have such problems. Even after expressing your feelings to the person you love, it is not clear whether he has feelings for you or not. It is very difficult to understand from the outside. However, what is on someone’s mind sometimes comes out through certain behaviors. Here are some of the symptoms. If you look at them, you may reach a certain point.
Responding to your every word:
Talking for a long time. Whatever you say, your favorite person sitting opposite is reacting to it. He laughs when you say something funny. This is very normal behavior. But that doesn’t mean he is equally interested in you. Many love to talk and laugh. Whoever is on the opposite side. He took a final decision after seeing you listening carefully, it seems that it will not be right.
Asking about your preferences about girls:
What qualities do you like in girls? Or what kind of women are on your list? The fact that the person of your choice is asking such a question does not necessarily mean that he is really thinking about you. There may be two reasons for such a question. One is to know the word for word, whether you have any other relationship or not. And two, be aware of your choices. Then it will be convenient to understand whether you are worthy of him or not.
Just two not wanting to meet:
Silence and intensity in love are two very important things. Both of these will be available when the two of you spend time together. But even if you want, your girlfriend does not want it? I mean, when he comes to meet you, he brings someone else? Or do you prefer hanging out with many friends rather than meeting alone? If so, you can think a little, about whether he really has feelings for you or not.
Shows absolutely no interest in the physical:
They hug each other lovingly sometimes. But if you want to get more intimate with the person you like, he objects. He resented holding her hand for a little longer. If so, talk to your loved one directly. In love, the touch of the partner should not cause irritation. But not all problems can be understood by looking at some external symptoms. It doesn’t mean he isn’t interested in love either. Maybe he doesn’t want to get physically close right now. Or he doesn’t think of you as a lover. Mutual discussion can clear your doubts.
If you don’t listen carefully:
The two are talking on the phone. You speak openly, but the person on the opposite side is just as reserved. Or your favorite person is saying the opposite of what you are saying. It is very important to open up to each other at the beginning of a relationship. If your partner doesn’t do anything like that, maybe he’s not very enthusiastic about it. Then again, it could also be that he is a bit shy. Can’t blend in quickly. With time you can see which direction the water goes.