Hearing the word Parqiya, a question about morality comes to mind as a social being. Is this kind of relationship or attraction really love, or is it just a biological instinct?

Went to a friend’s birthday party with a girlfriend. Suddenly there was an exchange of glances with a little-known young woman. In that one moment, something happened that made it seem as if he had known him for ages. Communication developed from there. After a few days that contact could no longer be confined to friendship. But you’re already in a relationship! On the other hand, there is no way to deny that second person outside of the relationship. Such events are not very rare in society. However, when such an incident occurs, a moral question arises in the mind of human beings as social beings. Is this kind of relationship or tension really love? Or is it just a biological instinct?

Many may question this kind of love. Or whether it can be called love or not.

Sion Majumder, a student at a famous university in the city, said, “What is there to say not to love it? Any relationship is really an exchange between two people. A kind of personal politics. Many people around us have multiple relationships.” He has more to say. “We can love father and mother together. If there are more than one brother and sister, love for them is equal. But why can’t love to be connected with more than one person,” he asked.

However, Basudha Ghatak, a teacher of an English medium school in the city, does not agree with Sion. In his words, “Love takes a kind of surrender. Parents, brothers, and sisters these relationships are born with us. But love is something where people find themselves more fully in another person. There will be a sense of entitlement.” According to him, not everyone can be ‘Nikhilesh’ of ‘home-outside’ in love. Even if there is Akhilesh, it is a form of love, like Vasudhara.

An actor, who did not wish to be named, smiled at the question. According to him, there is an attempt to avoid some social complications in the process of tying love to one. Actor A-O said, “Whether one admits it or not, many people are jealous. Especially in love. Apart from that, many see marriage as the next step in love. And there are many economic and family calculations associated with marriage. As a result, falling in love with more than one person at the same time is a problem.”

But why does this happen? In this case, all three people agree. All three said, it happened. Happens often. But since a relationship is a personal matter, it is a personal decision of who to do what. Just be careful that the decision does not cause harm to someone else.